No, but as long as it's not something you know for sure, it's still something.

Don't spite her in a way she expects you to-- because that would be what she wants. And as long as you show her you're not going to let her change or break you and who you are, that's how you really spite her. Bring them back now, rescue them later; deal with her first, and then revive them. But whatever you do, do it because you choose it, and you believe it's the right choice. That conviction is something she can't take from you, as long as it's your own.